The roads of life..

Today.. it has been like 6 months from the last time I wrote a blog..

The road of life.. Why do I say so..?

At many times.. life are like roads.. some are rough.. some are smooth.. some are wide.. some are narrow.. some are straight.. some are winding.. uphill and downhill..

At times we face roads blocks, at times we have to stop for the traffic lights, at times we meet with accident and at times we have to give way to others..

During our journey towards certain destination in life.. we have to choose our paths like the crossroads, the split roads, flyover, T-junctions, highways and dead ends.

Nevertheless, some roads are without U-turn, so we have to travel the extra mile just to go back to the location that we have gone wrong.

On the road, we usually meet other vehicles who will travel on the same direction and also the opposite direction towards their respective destinations.

There are some vehicles that will travel the same roads as you for a very long time, some will depart separate ways and some will meet again at other point of the road.

There will be some time when we meet some good drivers that will show you the way or give way or shoot the highlights on you or point the centre finger at you or even till the extend of 'FUCK U'.

Hahaha... all these depends on the choices of roads that we choose towards our destination.

Timing is also so very important as some will want to reach their destination fast.. some take their time.. and some will keep to time..

Along the way, we usually stop by to take a rest.. and that is where we get a chance to say HI!!

At times when we face breakdowns, there comes the tow-truck.. and we will continue with our journey again.

The ROADS of LIFE will never end till the day our vehicle breaks down and never recover again..

~They bring us together, and yet they bring us apart~

How ironic are cars to human...?

Today I had fell sick after about a month working in my new office... got mc for halfday... returned home half dead. Slept till 8 pm and my gf called to open the door.

I found out that it was raining outside and I was thankful that she reach my place safely.
It was very nice and thoughtful of her to buy dinner and come to visit me... I was definitely very happy...

Had dinner together and chat a little... then she had to leave at 10 pm because she needed to rest early... and also to see her dad at home...

Of course felt sad that she had to leave but she had to rest more for a better tomorrow... hehehe.

Then I called up a fren to talk to her the progress of me and my new gf... of course also to catch up on what we had missed.

Then she asked me a question... 'How do you know that this gf of yours is THE ONE'?
I answered her... THE ONE depends on what you want and also what you have experienced.

At many times... we judge what we want thru looking at other ppl and also what ppl experience from what they have. Sometimes things that ppl experience is different from each other. But we will take the highest point as our benchmark of what we want because its the best that you can get. I use to be like that...

Sometimes the thing that you want in life may not be the thing that is best for you in life...
And sometimes after knowing the thing, it may not be the thing that you want anymore...
So, it also depends on timing of when and what you want... of course the experience as well.

The example that I gave to my fren was my car... A KENARI.
When I first look at the Kenari... I felt that I did not like it due to its design... that was at first glance... but after that things changed.
Now I am driving a Kenari myself and I find all the good things in it.
From the space to comfort and fuel saving...

What I am trying to say here is not trying to sell the car... but sometimes things do not seem to look like what it is like... you have to experience something and gone thru something with it... then you will find the goodness and also the understanding that certain things are not there for a reason.

Its not that I did not like my gf at the first glance... but we started as frens... then we became good frens. I started to find that I start to understand her more and wanted to know more...
Of course there are certain things that I expected but it was not there... but like I said... things were not there for a reason.

Sometimes things that we hope to want and what we really want can be different...
At this point of time... she is what I really want and I hope that she is my last gf so that we can grow together to be something that we both want... thats the only true thing that I wanna do now.

I hope that Fei, Gu and CK can support me as I know one day that you will view this blog... thanks for being my fren.

New day to come for a new beginning...

Tomorrow will be my new day working in my new company.
Now i am feeling a little scared of what to come tomorrow and also the problems that i will face there.
There is also some excitement because i will be working in another industry and i have never been to this industry... so i guess there will be a lot of surprises waiting for me tomorrow.